my Oscars were both about 2in when i got them, couldnt tell if male or female. however when they hit about 4in i kinda guessed one was male cos it was more streamlined, had a pointier face, a larger anal fin and was more aggressive and faster. the other was nicer, slower, rounder, had a bulge down by the vent and actually sorta adopted a feeder RZ by feeding it a few pellets.
do the oscars exhibit different behaviours and aggression levels? is one more streamlined or pointier with a larger anal fin? oscars are extremely hard to sex but it can be minutely defined in some cases.
sounds like 2 males fighting. mine have paired and for the last 2 weeks have been building a spawning site (cleaning all sand away down to bare glass) in the day then destroying it at night, as a rehearsal. they dont fight at all.
if i were u id try to separate them if it gets too nasty xx xx