Also once they get bigger I plan on getting a 75 gallon for them, will this be big enough for them when they are full grown?
A 75 gallon tank will be big enough JUST for the Oscar and the Jack Dempsey nothing else (ideally).
This point is mute as these two fish are NOT compatible. In my case the JD was more aggressive than the Oscar and was constantly nipping at and stressing the Oscar out. The outcome was not good. Both of these fish are highly territorial.
Stick with a pair of one OR the other and a pleco for a 75G with frequent water changes, but an an even larger tank than a 75G is highly recommended.
Oscars are pigs when it comes to food consumption - they spray it everywhere.