Personally I've never raised South American cichlids but have talked to various people and who attest that they are more agressive in understocked tanks. I can attest that it's been true with African Cichlids.
As far as the problem with the JD and the pictus, Pictus catfish can only make it when they are much larger and the Cichlid(s) have a very mellow personality. It sounds like neither of these are true for you so either you're going to have to separate them or the pictus is going to die. Pretty much it's that simple. I can't think of anything other than separating them that is ultimately going to fix the problem. The JD is going to just get more and more aggressive and is probably going to grow faster than the pictus. Adding fish may cut down on this (generally cichlids prefer to pick on each other) but my guess is the pictus will be dead long before you can
qt the new fish, and even if that doesn't happen there's no guarantee that more fish will fix the aggression, it's just a possibility.
Cichlids only mix well with a very small group of fish, anything outside of the small group usually becomes a snack.