Thanks Kurt.. I think if my question had been along the lines of 'My anemone in my 10g tank with 20watt bulbs is unhealthy' then I would have expected a retort.. I genuinely am scared of forums.. people tend to get very defensive of their trade/hobby.. and in my intro I made it clear that I'm not the sort of person to mistreat my pets, quite the opposite. The idea of harming an animal disgusts me - even if it is 'just a fish' (as my friends say, not me).
I got my anemones from a very well established LFS
with a very good reputation and paid a lot for them, to ensure I wasn't supporting unfair treatment to animals and that they would do well in my system.
indicated that my water params and lights were more than enough for my 'Nems.
mikes question smacked of a kind of smug 'I know more than you and am going to put you down before I have even met you' that I have seen in MMORPG and Car forums of which I have previously been on (and left)
Me? touchy? yep! and I have a cold this week so extra touchy
and cant find the delete account option.
Let's start again.