I know how he feels. I like to know EXACTLY what to expect, especially when dropping serious $$$. I am getting my major in electrical engineering and that sort of stuff WILL make you ANAL about details! This is how I first started off a year ago. I calmed down a bit and sure enough, things improved.
Bavass..Looking good. Everything is looking good. You just need to grab a beer and sit back.
Youll see, wait a month or two and youll see everything will be just fine so long as you take the advice from the pros here. I am pretty lazy with my tank (15% PWC
ever 1.5-2weeks or so) and this in a small 20g. I just keep to strict feeding and RO
water. I need to step up the husbandry now that I have acroporas though...
Just wait, we will all be laughing about this 2 months from now while we look at your nice tank!