The OP is going to do what I believe she wants. All we can do is offer our advice and opinions. What she chooses to do with it is solely up to her.
With that said. The OP is aware of the stocking issues, i.e. overstocked, aggression etc etc.
Only the OP can change things or... Not change them. It's not our job as members to beat the horse so to speak. OP has been made aware and that's the all we can do is educate and be respectful when doing so.
I don't think anyone was "jumping all over you" your statement about the clowns may have been taken out of content or maybe not...
I happen to have 2 clownfish in my Bio Cube 29 and there fine.
Bottom line. In this hobby there is NO DOUBT very very passionate people and when they see something wrong we tend to feel the need to "correct" a situation.
I think sometimes we, including myself lose sight of one major thing... It's not out tank, we don't take care of it, we don't need to see it. We have our own tanks to take care of. We did our job here.
OP knows the deal... It's up to the OP to change things or... Simply stay on the path already laid out.
"When creating an aqua scape, strive for the beauty of imperfection, as its art and there is no wrong or right, it's left open for interpretation" James Findley