Calerpa can be used. I`ve been using it for ten years npw. Lighting must be on 24/7 and needs to be regularly pruned. I feed a ball of it to my tangs every week. I use grape calerpa. If you follow those guidelines you will be OK.
I am having difficulty understanding the concept of the refugium. I have mud, rubble rock and a handful of caulerpa in mine. Water is being fed into the refugium via a tee off of the return pump piping with a ball valve to control the flow. Do I just allow the refugium to fill up with water, flow over the divider into the return pump area and then it goes into main tank that way?