Nope, agree with all the above comments. It is possible that your clowns won't host any nem, ever. It's hit and miss, they won't go for the sebae but you'd have better luck with a bubble tip if any. I keep two bubble tips, my female clown hosts one and my male hosts a hammer coral, the other nem solo. Go figure. I also recommend waiting a Good 6-8 months before trying a nem, as they are particularly sensitive to swings in parameters, which new tanks are prone to. Do you keep a log book of your tanks readings? Pay close attention to temp and salinity, you don't want to see fluctuations with that at all. If you can keep your tank stable and upgrade your lighting it may pull through.