A rare breed of person asks a question (even if in hindsight its really stupid) and when they get an answer they don't like, don't go all "you guys are all big jerks and i hate you and im gonna do whatever i want anyway"
Kudos to you sir. The best thing to do in this hobby is ask questions, then sit, listen and learn.
I agree with Cmor, but the unfortunate reality is people will never stop wanting these creatures, so if somewhere down the line you decide to get one again, make sure you know where your LFS
gets their stock, and get one that has been aquacultured, or fragged from a fellow hobbyist to be a sustainable reefer.