Bolivian Ram Question

[confusedfishmom]

I've got a 29g, well established, planted tank with 2 newish Bolivian Rams and 1 Oto. The Rams were the best of mates for about a month and went everywhere together. A few days ago, I noticed them in separate sections of the tank. Tonight (at feeding time) I noticed them fighting. At first just over food and then it seemed if they were even near each other they just went at it. Any advice on curbing aggression? I wonder if I'm feeding them enough. I'm new to cichlids and have been dropping just a few pellets in once per day and feeding bloodworms once a week. Thoughts?

 

[mbkemp]

Males with males will fight a little bit, males with females will as well. When it is m-f she is testing him to see if he is worthy. Give them
Some time