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does anyone other than me cry when they lose a fish?
I cried when i lost my molly and my two cory cats.
I have been wringing my hands frantically about my female GBR. i almost called into work today so i could stay home with her. |
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actually yes. I cry over all my pets. some fish that im attached to but i was so sad when my favorite most discus was almost gone. it broke my heart. but i think if one of my big old discus or something along that lines dies. I would cry for a while. Im very attached.
I cried because i had to leave my cat. i cried like a baby. So i made sure that i wasnt leaving all my tanks there. cause that would have broke my heart too. i was very upset when my female gbr died. cause i finally got a pair and she went and died. |
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I don't cry when my fish die, but I did tear up when I lost one of my clownfish. It jumped out of the tank and I found it when I got home late that night. It was sad.
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I had a fancy goldfish a long time back that developed some kind of bump under her gills (fluke maybe?) Anyway we tried to treat her and one day I came home to see her sitting in this blue liquid (the meds turned it blue) and gasping. Well I started crying like a baby and then pleaded with my father to end her suffering. He is such a great guy that he did it for me even when I knew he didn't want to.
Since then, I have tried not to get too attached, but it is hard. You feel responsible for them. |
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I don't cry either when I lose fish. I might though if I had an Oscar for 6 years and it died. I wanted to cry when I failed my driving test, however. What I've learned is that you can't dwell on things to long. And you can only prepare/be ready for the next time/situation.
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I think I'd tear up if Depot ever died. She's given me scares in the past.
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I should specify. I was treating my most expensive favorite fish. And well when it came down to it I had nothing in my crappy town at the time to treat him. And he was so thin from not eating. his skin started eating away and i sat there think i had to do something for him and i could not . So it made it harder. finally my lfs got the drug i need in and hes still getting better and better every day. i wouldnt like get depressed and take time off work for greiving or anything. but i think i would be sad and cry a bit. ive done it for ever other animal i ever had. Even like dog , cat, lizards, birds. and such.
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I dont cry, but I give em a proper burial in the lemon tree flower pot.
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I don't cry either, but it did break my heart when my GBR died. She all of a sudden had some sort of injury and I could tell she wouldn't make it another day. I tried to treat her, but she wouldn't eat and stayed up near the surface, which wasn't like her. She died the next day...I was so sad!
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i think there are just fish we care about more,
no one cries over a neon tetra, because we each have 10 of them, they are identical, and show no personality or individuality other fish arent mindless schoolers...goldfish, betta, bgk, gbr and therefore we see them as an individual |
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