Diatoms are just a new tank nuseance, nothing more. As for the vinegar, drop a few drops on the rock, you don't need a ton. Sorry but you can't see bacteria building in a filter. They only way to know if your tank is cycling is by testing the water for ammonia, nitrite, and nitrate. Getting a API master test kit would be a good idea. Once your tests read 0 for both nitrite and ammonia and your reading for nitrate is actually increasing, then you know your tank has cycled and has a good bacterial base. Oh, don't waste your money on test strips, they don't read properly.