Mmm. When I was reading about ph after we got our betta, I came across the info to NEVER NEVER EVER change it with chemicals. It makes sense. I read rock for up and wood for down, or almond (may be mistaken about the kind) leaves to help bring it down too, but that can color the water (although harmless).
I thought about buying the high range ph test kit, but then I read some things from other people on forums after searching online, that they tested with that and it was difficult to tell between the two tests (regular and high range) what their ph really was and the high range put it around what the regular said or it was a little different so...) Ours tops out on the regular ph kit at the pretty medium blue, which says 7.6. It could be higher, I am not sure. I don't know how to find out really but I could spend money on the high ph kit but I don't use the ph test kit that often as it is, so it could be a waste of $$ (and I've spent soo much money on these fishies already lol). Of course I made the mistake of buying the ph test AND adjuster kit in one (because that sounded nice right?) so that cost more. Thankfully I learned before I used it (other than the test part) to NOT mess with ph unless it is done naturally.
We are new to aquariums and fish keeping, but, the betta we have and our 5 little pygmy cory cats (I am going to get 2 more tomorrow so there will be 7 total) seem to be fine in our water. It comes from a well too, so no chlorine or anything. Obviously I still use a water conditioner
I don't know if I want to mess with wood or anything, but I think the corys would love it....
I just don't know how much it lowers the ph.
As for the stone question we were originally talking about, I think boiling would definitely be a good idea. But even if it is fine and no toxins or anything, it could still raise PH, and we don't need it to be higher.