I use a Aquatic Life RO Buddy. This
one. I really like it and the price was right. It's a little slow and it's rated for 50 gpd. I don't have the DI unit for it. My well water is very hard GH20 KH20-23 pH at 48 hours is 8.8-9. There are others out there using RO but they are pretty quiet. There are definitely way more people saying it's not necessary or to mix the well water with RO. I have a thread
here that might have some more info for you. I have done a lot of testing over the last few weeks trying every combination of things. I did find that at lower KH the more likely substrate,rocks,etc. will effect the KH and pH. So when the water had a KH of 10 the Flora-Max substrate had no impact on KH or pH but when it was only 1 or 2, Flora-Max increased the KH and pH. I did these tests controlled at room temperature in jars.
Also another thought, do you have a copper test? I don't know how much copper your fertilizer contains and or how much you've been adding but from what I've been reading shrimp are very sensitive to it. I've been doing some reading on shrimp because I'd like to get some. Also some of what I've read says if the shrimp are wild caught they tend to have a higher mortality rate because of all the added stress.
Anyway, if you have more RO water questions. I can try to help. That's all I really know anything about at this point.