I agree Cinder, but to be honest, a lot of people simply don't care. When people come looking for advice, and are told "take back your fish" most don't. In pretty much every thread that get started by a newcomer who doesnt know about the Nitrogen cycle, someone does mention that it would be best to take the fish back and do it fishless. I've only seen one or two people actually do it. Most people start their first tank as a decoration and the realization that they should empty it and wait to add fish for 4-8 weeks doesnt sit well with them. In these situations, many people welcome the advice of checking water and changing it daily if needed, because then they can keep their decoration. Helping people learn and avoid unneccessary deaths is the driving force behind helping people cycle with their existing fish. Many times, people will either get frustrated and refuse to learn, driving them out of the hobby early, or will get seriously interested and will apply knowledge learned to future tanks. Unfortunatly, especially on the internet, you will always get those that come looking for advice and refuse to take it, continually doing whatever they think is right and searching for someone, even a single person, to aknowledge their ways - they usually ignore all of the experienced people and end up losing fish after fish after fish.
I definitly don't want to come across as harsh, because your intent is very well-intended and compassion is very much needed in this hobby -- but know that most of the people here feel the same as you and there is only so much we can do on an internet forum.