Without being an expert on anthias(I am not) I think these guys are pretty tough to tell if the male does not clearly stand out?
I had 2 fat heads(supposed to be pair from #2 LFS
) that ended poorly for one in a matter of months.
Are those guys Bartlets?
I had one of them also years back.
It's funny(not really) when a fish jumps out of your tank after 2 years?
Definitely a cool looking fish but one that is still a hard one for most to keep over the long run.
Feed them hard for first couple weeks and on that note you feeding flakes and they are eating them ?