coral banded shrimp only have a bad name because some people under feed them they are not aggressive at all IMO
, they only look aggressive because they have long arms they can swing , yes they don't get along with fire shrimp or skunk shrimp .
as for crabs I do know Emerald Crabs , Porcelain Crabs , Emerald Crabs , ruby Emerald Crabs , would get along but at times may fight but that's what crabs do , they would need a nice amount of rocks to hid in , these crabs also have a very short life span
never seen any last more than 6 months as most will starve,
Anemone Crab would need a anemone to host , as for the other crabs on your list I don't know much about them or have any experience as I never kept any of these crabs