well you have been rushing too much, there is No Short Cut , No easier way, No specialy recipe to make this cycle to be done faster than anyone else. If you want to be successful on salt water (even fresh water) aquarium, u got to learn to be patient. I can tell that you try to push everything forward by all the posts you started, but that won't help you.At this stage, wat you can do is sit and wait. We all know looking at the glass tank without anything in it is boring. But we have all been thru that stage. Now some of us have fantastic tank green blue red yellow watever color coral growing in it, it is all because we learn to wait and enjoy.
Btw, you won't have any hitchhikers for now, at least to be alive and healthy.The best bet on hitchhikers is a mature tank with good water condiction.
Maybe i sounds a bit harsh, but that is the basic advice you might hear from others.It will just do you good instead of harm =)