Originally Posted by ryn_C_mu
I did a water test all checked out even when I did a 25% before I left I put iodized salt in the tank with it for him so idk what happened
We don't tell people that they should wait to add nems for about a year to be cruel to the new reefer, we say this so they don't kill the nem. I can't say it any clearer than this, your system is not mature enough for this animal. If you really want to try an anemone wait another 6 months and upgrade to quality lighting and try a BTA.
You should also be using reef salt you know that right? And you should NEVER add salt directly to a tank with livestock in it.