Well, just getting lighting for softies, and then wanting to put anemones in there is a contradiction, considering the anemones you are looking at need higher light then some stony coral. So you can either buy lights for just softies, and be done with it, but then you won't be able to keep any anemones happy. Or you could just go with higher lighting and be able to keep anything you wanted, including anemones.
I would also suggest Metal Halides. You normally don't need a chiller unless your house temp gets really high up there. A simple fan could be used to bring the temperature of the tank down a few degrees. I had a 150w MH pendant over my 25G cube and my temp never rose above 80 degrees, and i didn't even have a fan to boot.