Ok this is my new setup, everything I built except the tanks and pump. Works great been up for 10 hours and the water lines have stayed the same, it also never, I repeat never lost its syphon while I drained the tank with a bucket to move it in the garage. I drained the top tank completely and picked it and the owerflow plumbing all in one unit. took it in the garage filled it back up and the syphon took right back off with out me priming it....YEAH it works...here are some pics
the stand turned out really good keep in mind I havent put the background on the tank yet, most of the plumbing will be hidden.
the tank 20 long
the sump/fuge ignore the crazy silicone job I will clean it up, and I know my baffles are too high will fix later.