Woohoo, I don't mean to hijack this thread, but this is something that really gets my goat...
I understand the benefits of fishless cycling, and I am not at all against the process. But ever since I have come on to this forum, I read about how cruel and unloving it is to put fish in an uncycled tank.
I put 4 baby swordtails in 38 gallons of water when the tank was brand new when I was a newbie, and someone on this forum told me that they were going to die of ammonia poisoning in a matter of days! 4 baby swordtails are going to pollute 38 gallons of water in a few days??? 6 months later, they are all alive, beautiful, and huge.
And now this poor woman is getting grief because her boyfriend bought her two small angels and they are in 55 gallons of water? Come on. My fish have survived many a newbie mishap by my hands, everything from an inexplicable nitrite spike to hiding in decorations that I have taken out of the water for 5 minutes while I cleaned the tank. One time, I took out a decoration to wash some algae off of it, and my chinese algae eater jumped out of the decoration into my bathtub full of VERY warm chlorinated water! I yelled, and got him out of there and back in his tank. He's still over there in my 10 gallon happily munching away today. Fish are a lot more resilient than we give them credit for.
I don't want anyone to think that I am promoting irresponsible fish care or putting fish into overcrowded situations where the ammonia and nitrite levels are toxic, but I sometimes feel the need to say, "Chill out, people!" Many of us have used a couple small fish to cycle a tank, and we've kept the ammonia and nitrite levels in check with proper maintenance and water changes, and our fish are happy, healthy, and still with us. Done properly and carefully, cycling with fish is NOT cruel or inhumane, and I am willing to bet that rubysoho's 2 angels will still be with us in the months to come.
Chill out! Offer good advice and help, don't berate and flame. The very fact that someone is here means they have good intentions for their fish. Just think of all the newbies out there that buy oscars and tetras from Wal-Mart and throw them in a 10 gallon tank and will never see or care about this site, and then you will appreciate those of us that ARE here.
I am prepared for disagreement and flames now, but there, I said it.
Paul