Go with a 100mm. I have the 100m (non L series) and find myself wanting the 180mm and dreaming about the 65mm MP-E (5x) more and more.
A tripod is really a necessity, but you can rest the lens on the glass and get ok pictures. I use a tripod, though, so I can lock up the mirror and avoid blur from the mirror slap.
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