Ok, so basically I'm venting. I read this forum constantly because I have nothing else really to do at work, but something has been irking me for the past few months...
When you (anyone who posts) ask for help or suggestions from other members, please...
DO NOT GET OFFENDED OR PISSY JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS STATING THEIR 2˘, WHICH IS WHAT YOU ASKED FOR IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!
Seriously, when you state you unknowingly did something, and someone corrects you or tells you what you did wrong, don't get mad. If that's how you're going to react, go to the library and read a book.
99% of posters are trying to help, and thankfully, with enough of them being avid aquarists with years and years of experience, they help others out, then the others continue the help.
I forget who's signature this is in, but someone has this quote:
"If you don't help Newbies, they will grow"
So please, either toughen your skin and take the advice you don't like, or don't post things saying, "you're mean, and my feelings were hurt".