I'm not taking offense to anything said, and in fact, I'm a very impatient person myself. I think we have a pretty good turn around time...so it just annoys me when anyone gets critical about a post being un-answered for 20 minutes.
I can only speak for myself, but the first thing I try to do in the morning is look for posts with 0 replies. I do that throughout the day too, but at 8 am the 0 replies will be at their highest.
People also need to keep in mind that all the advisors have normal jobs, and that most of us are performing our advisor roles during normal work hours. I happen to be a computer tech, so when I'm not on the phone, I'm usually here. (this also explains why my posts are sometimes very short, or seem incomplete...I get interrupted mid-thought and just post what I was able to type...some calls last 2-3 hours)
Also, I'm not trying to single zilla/wife out as being anxious for a reply. I see it from lots of members, some new some old, many times a week. So please don't take offense...I wasn't trying to single you out.
Former advisor and planted tank geek...life's moved on though.