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Keep those lines of communication open. Remember that the way you react to ANY info your son tells you will directly coorspond with his willingness to disclose info in the future. Set clearly defined boundries for your son's interaction with girls. Think into the future. He is only 14, if he wants to see a girl he must do it in the company of friends or family. Maybe 16 he can actually start to "date". I would be cautious of preventing or forbiding him to see girls, this will only force him to do it behind your back. Most importantly, become one of the "cool parents". When my wife was in high school her parents had a trampolene a pool table and a fridge full of pop. All of the kids wanted to hang out at her house. Granted, they lost some sleep because of the noise, but they would have just been up worrying about her if she was gone. I did not meet my wife until years later, but I know she appreciated the effort her parents put into creating a safe, comfortable and fun place for her friends. BTW, I know what you mean about the way girls dress these days. They did not look like that when I was in school. If I am ever blessed with a girl, the only thongs you will see on her will be on her feet, not sticking out of the back of her pants. (OMG, I have turned into my parents 8O )