A lot of people screen them off from the tank rather than just phase them in. If you use layers of screen over your tank you can take off one screen a week until you've removed them all. I'd put back a screen (or wait longer to remove the next one) if you see them not coming out as a result. I think they say you should use 6-8 layers of screen. Good luck. I hope they come around.
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