Ok, I showed the wife a thread about sins that people keeping an aquarium do and the first 5 or 6 replies talked about having too many fish in too small a place.
She said get the 125!!!!! God, I love this woman!
Thanks for the help AA. So now I'll have to change my sig.
125gal FOWLR, 20L Sump w/LR and Skimmer, 20T Fuge w/DSB, Cheato, Pods and Algae Turf Scrubber