Ya'll might know my hubby Johny.
First of all, I gotta say, thanks for being such an open and welcoming community.
It's given both of us a breath of fresh air. Second of all... I am not at all as knowledgeable, or informed, about fish as he is and I know he's still got a lot to learn. BUT my goal is to at least catch up to him. When we got our first tank it was already established, and we both started out studying and learning about cycling, rules about gravel per gallon, and so on... That's when he delved into forums to learn more about fish, and after listening to him talk about them, I had no desire to. He frequently got frustrated with how rude the forums were. Then he found this one... and now I'm still learning the basics and he's talking about longs and talls and HOB
oy. I've got lots ta learn.
I do enjoy fish. I do enjoy learning about them and their care. I'm hoping this forum will help me learn enough to catch up to him, so we can once again have conversations about fish, and I can start better articulating what I want for our tank... and my dream tank.