Well with the stresses of everyday life the aquarium and this forum should not ad to the heavy load. Aquariums are for relaxation IMO
and the times spent with one will relieve stress and help us to live longer. occasionally something happens with the tank and we get flustered when something goes wrong but the times in between are well worth it. if we can't joke around and enjoy our fishys' life then what the h-e-double-hockey-sticks are we doing this for?
i like to come home after a long day of work and sit in front of my tank and watch the fish swim carelessly through the water and let all the headaches and problems of the day melt away.
P.s. Hey Welcome to the site ECHO and glad you decided to stop being a peeping tom lol