How high will you need to pump it and how fast do you want to do it? I use an old Hagen 402 to pump into my sump.
As far as return pumps, the Danner Supreme Mag Drives are very durable, but tend to be loud and run hot. Eheims I hear are very quiet, and I know the brand to be reputable.
I'm using an Aqueon and a Rio in my 75. The Aqueon is a little quieter than my Mag Drive, but I think is actually more powerful than the similarly sized Rio, which is the quietest of the three brands I've used personally. Unfortunately, my experience with the durability of the Rios has been less than stellar.
Another brand I'd consider is Quiet One by Lifegard.
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