I'm also a Texan, and what I've been told is that the best (really only) way to lower your hardness is to use RO water partially in your water changes. Now, there's some species of fish that tolerate hard water better than others but a lot of fish that people keep easily in other parts of the country don't do well for us Texans. (think South American species....)
I would also test your straight out of the tap water too to see if the hardness is as high. Well water can be crazy high,but a lot of the larger cities do something to soften their water. If your tap water is a lot softer than the tank, you may be in much better shape long-term.
But yeah, the rocks that you can find easily in our state are usually the type that release minerals into the water...people in soft water states will buy "Texas Holey rock" (limestone) to maintain their tanks at a higher hardness and pH for African cichlids and the like.
Anywho, get some RO or distilled water to lower your hardness if you need to, but test your tap and check into the species you're keeping to see if they're hard water tolerant or not. Here's an article I used in species selection for my community tank:
Hard Water Comm Tk Sel Monks