i have 4 jewel cichlids,2 paired up. i am planning on giving the other 2 away when i find someone with a suitable home for them(sooner if they cause trouble). the last of my pairs most recent spawn were gone today( lasted 9 days from eggs,would of been 10 today. pretty good for there second try). the second smallest(smallest is the confirmed female),who i believe is female,seems to be courting my confirmed male. the one courting him has a nice full belly, which i believe is because of eggs. will my male spawn with her,or stay loyal to his mate(assuming she is female)?