My LFS let me pick and net the fish myself. There were probably a 100 honey gourami in there so it was hard pinpointing one. I did notice some that were clearly “fatter” height wise, which were probably female. I knew about the sharp anal and dorsal fin, but all the gourami had rounded anal fin. Some were rounder, but none were sharp. The dorsal fin, however, included sharp and round. After a quick google image of honey gouramis, I noticed that their male’s anal fin is not as sharp as other male gourami variants?