Can anyone help me with how? I have a beautiful Bolivian ram, whom I've tried to give a mate twice. The first time, they locked lips and fought. This time, mine is following the new one around, but mine kinda "smacks" the other with its tail. Are these 2 girls? Boys? Will they get along either way if they're not locking lips? Mine has red in its belly, whereas the other is yellow. They aren't fighting, but they both seem tense.