okay, this'll probably give y'all a chuckle, but i have a very annoying betta problem. just brought home a rather young male betta Friday night (Nov. 26th), and he seemed VERY pleased to find himself in a 20-gal tank, as opposed to the extremely cramped thing he was in @ the LFS. as he was exploring, he noticed a quite large (about 1/3 larger than him) female guppy, with his same basic coloration--silverish with lavender and silver tail and fins). he started showing his interest in her, she snubbed him, and he has now gone into a deep depression. won't eat (shows complete indifference, or spits it back out, depending upon his mood); won't "menace" the betta in his mirror (actually seems to have formed an aversion to his mirror--completely avoids that side of the tank, etc.); keeps his fins closed--although they are not "clamped", just droopy; spends most of his time either hiding in a corner of the tank or just floating at the top (blowing occasional bubbles) or laying on the bottom. he is exhibiting no signs of infection, parasites, injury, etc., except for his behavior. had a molly with swim bladder disease, so treated the tank with a broad-spectrum anti-fungal/anti-bacterial, and although the molly is flourishing, my betta is still in his funk. have removed the mirror to see if that helps with his aversion to the right side of the tank, but since i obviously can't help him with his guppy lady-love, i am totally stumped on what else to do for him. he will occasionally scrounge around the gravel for food after the lights are off, and seems to graze on the bits of algae growing on the caves (otos keep the growth pretty sporadic), but he refuses all food at "feeding time". i have read that a betta may sulk up to 10 days after moving to a new environment, but i really don't want to wait that long to act, if there is something i can do now. i have started considering getting him a female, but really don't want to get into breeding, etc......also, i have no way to keep them apart when they aren't breeding--unless i were to place one in the spawing tank that hangs in the aquarium---REALLY don't want to do that, as i don't want to confine one of them, while the others all swim free. i also wonder if a failed first attempt at "courtship" might cause him to shy from courting a "real" betta female, y'know?
second Q for you---although i have never seen offspring, i have heard that guppies and mollies can cross-breed. is this true? i ask, because since i added mollies to the tank, they and the guppies have been showing quite a bit of interest in each other.
BTW---i've noticed this always happens in my tank, but has anyone else noticed that adding new fish causes an immediate increase in breeding activities among _all_ the fish in the tank?
thanks for any and all help, suggestions, and feedback! never had a betta problem like this before, and really don't have a clue what to do about it.
fireclown