everything was cycled fine, and the tank has been up for about 5 months, I got the new gravel and added during a water change, after rinsing of course. But we went and talked to my lfs
, and he said that it wasnt my gravel ,but my temperature was way to high. I am not sure how but it was up to 84 instead of 76. So I was cooking my poor little ones. We lowered the temp and now we are waiting, its at 80 right now.