First welcome to AA. As far as the sand if not that much then get it and give it a good rinse. I dont go for that prepackaged live sand bit anyway. As far as the
LR, what makes it live is the nitrifying bacteria that colonizes on your
LR. You can not see it but you can test to see if it`s doing it`s job. The little critters that come with
LR are a bonus. So you see it`s not
LR because of the critters you see but the nitrifying bacteria you cant see. What size tank will this be?