Ya, so this is pretty much silly... i know i want more fish, im just not going about it right. Instead of making a big deal out of getting all this fish in a 10 gallon and having to clean the thing every 3 days, im just going to go with a bigger tank.
i checked prices today, not to bad for a 29 gallon and i think the 55 was like 160 something for the whole kit. Im thinking the beggining of next ill get the 55g tank and start getting materials for it, this time no b/s ill make sure im asking about everything uncertain everytime. Im not in a big hurry, id rather do this right and have room for lots of fish...
...dark gravel you say! I think that sounds like a good idea for sure.