The Freshwater API Master kit uses liquid reagents which is much more accurate than test strips. The tests take longer to do bu the added accuracy is better. Also one box will last you about 200 tests. More than you will need for 2-3 years, the lifespan of the liquid reagents in the kit. At wal-mart they can be had for about 20 dollars.
Amazon.com: Aquarium Pharmaceuticals Aquarian Freshwater Master Test Kit: Home & Garden
Carbon can slow down the cycle as it sucks up dissolved organics and minerals from the water, things needed for bacteria, especially at the very beginning. However, this is in my personal experience and isn't really guarded by empirical data so it may work for you.
Instead of using the pre-made cartridges just buy filter media in the form of sheets. I use "Marine-land Rite-fit Bonded Filter pads" They are available at petsmart for 5 dollars a pop which would last at least a year. I bought mine online for less, but I bought 10 units for the koi pond and the indoor tank.
Anyways, on the plants. Plants are basically living filters. In order to formulate the necessary amino acids for growth they need nitrogen. Nitrogen itself is found in many compounds that are prevalent in aquaria: Ammonia/Ammonium, Nitrite (no2), and Nitrate (No3). Plants have a tendency to sequester their nitrogen from Ammonia first instead of Nitrate. In a cycling aquarium this can make dosing ammonia more guess work than a science as uptake is dictated by a broad range of factors: light, co2, other nutrients in the water, and temperature.
However, in an established tank, plants can help reduce nitrates and keep ammonia in check, both of which at sufficient levels is toxic to fish. In a cycled aquarium ammonia is generally not present and plants will use Nitrates for a nitrogen source. Nitrates however are the end product of the nitrogen cycle and will therefore be of no benefit to any Nitrifying bacteria in the system and are best remove via plant uptake or water changes.
Anyways. On to how much ammonia to add!
What brand ammonia do you have? More specifically, what % ammonia is it.
Finding how much to dose is dependent on the starting Molality, or concentration of the solution.
Sorry for the verbosity of the post. It's late and these are the first words that come to mind.
I think I'll actually be hitting the sack for now but okay:
Your starting concentration of ammonia should be 4ppm inside the tank. That is, by mass 4mg of Ammonia ions/1 litre of water since a litre of water is 1kg.
If your starting concentration is 10%. That means 10% of the mass contained within that bottle is ammonia. In 1L of solution, that is 100g of ammonia. You need 4mg!.
To obtain this amount you must figure out how much water is in your tank.
12g is more or less 45L(big guestimation)
Anyways so within 45L you have 45kg of water and need 180mg of ammonia. Phew.
So using solution stoichiometry:
I can find how much ammonia is in 5ml of 10% ammonia- .5g of ammonia. I need 180mg, .0180. You therefore need about 1ml of ammonia or 1/4 tsp! Tada! (These are very rudimentary estimations but will land you between 3-5ppm ammonia)