librarygirl
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Actually, after giving this more thought, I don't think it's the best idea. Sure, it will seed your new filter with the bacteria you need and it will work. However, your also just using up your new filter sponge in someone else's tank. Eventually these sponges break down and need to be replaced. So the best idea is to just have him donate a piece of his used sponge and place it your filter. Just tuck it behind the new sponge.
Sorry I'm not sure what the difference is as to whether what sponges they are? Why would one break down sooner than the other? Assuming you're using appropriate aquarium filter sponges (not kitchen sponges lol) they'll be fine and they'll literally last for years. I think either having him put your filter media into his filter (if he can fit it) or just run your filter onto his tank for a while would seed the filters. I'm not sure how well it would seed if you only left it on there for a week; the longer the better, 2 weeks at least IMO (3-4 is optimum). But if you did that and then started stocking SLOWLY and LIGHTLY and kept an eye on levels with your test kit (that you're going to buy soon ) and do water changes if anything spikes I think that would be fine.
What size tank again and what fish are you planning on getting?