This is not totally kosher, but I think in a situation like this, you are safer to move everyone into the big tank now.
The 2.8 prob had been cycled with the original fish, but is likely having a mini-cycle because of all the new fish, and now some are dying becasue a small tank like that is very unstable. There is however, some cycling bacteria in the 2.8 which will help speed up the 20's cycle.
I would therefore suggest:
Move the 2.8's filter to the 20 and run it in conjunction with the 20's filter for about 4-6 weeks until the 20 is cycled. Move all the ornaments & substrate too. If you are not planning to keep it premanently in the 20, put the substrate in a mesh bag (nylon stocking) in the 20 for easy removal later.
Meanwhile, put all the 2.8's fish (and enough tank water from the 2.8 ) in a CLEAN (no soap or residue) tub. Drip acclimatize them with the 20's tank water. <You run a small hose from the 20 to the tub, start a siphoning action, and let the water run into the tub SLOWLY - adjust height, kink the tube with paper clip, etc. You want to run the 20's water in at a rate of about a couple
gal an hour. After you have run around 5
gal of the 20's water into the tub, the water in the tub would have slowly changed to match the 20's, and the 2-3 hr it took will give the fish a time to acclimatize. Keep an eye on the fish, if they are stressed, slow down the drip & take longer time.>
After the 2.8's fish are acclimatized, put them all into the 20 (discard the tub's water & add clean water to the 20 to fill). Check the 20's cycling progress with test kit daily until cycling is done. Do
PWC as needed to bring
NH3/
NO2 levels down in safe range. With the 2.8's cycling bacteria, this should take a week or 2.
With all the fish in the 20, you have only one tank to worry about, and the bigger tank will be more stable during the cycling. Yes, there are too many fish for you to cycle easily, so you need more testing &
pwc's. But your fish are hardy & the bacteria from the 2.8 would help a great deal. Certainly they would be better off in the 20 than leaving half in the 2.8 while you are waiting for the 20 to finish cycling. <You likely won't have any fish left in the 2.8 by then!>
And stay with the salt for now - change one thing at a time. Salt will prevent nitrite poisoning, and you will have a nitrite spike ..... Once the tank is cycled, gradually remove the salt with your routine
pwc.