...Kurt does n't sound very convincing that they are not much to worry about. ...?
Hmmm... good thing I'm not a saleman by trade!
I have them in my tank and yes, they do spread, but not very much and not very fast. Of course, I'm sure that may change depending on water conditions. Kalk paste smeared over the little buggers will definitely kill them, but Innovator mentioned one time my new favorite method: just grab a wad of them with some long handled tweezers and twist them off the rock. Depending on the colony shape and your rock, this may be easier said than done.
Regarding them harming corals, here's my two hydroid/coral encounters. I once had a group pop up near my torch coral. As the torch coral grew and could reach them, within weeks the hydroid colony was gone. The torch coral isn't in my tank anymore, but they've never come back in that area.
And right this minute, I have a colony of little snowflake polyps (sansibia/anthelia) that went bonkers on me and spread themselves all over my tank. One of the offspring polyps established itself right next to a colony of hydoids and started spreading. It's right now in the process of overgrowing the hydroid colony, and it appears it's going to snuff it out.
So from my limited experience, hydroids don't really lay waste to everything they encounter. I'm sure they will kill off certain corals, but I haven't seen it yet.
Is that more convincing?