Your loved ones are the important ones... be happy it was a smashed car and not a smashed wife!
What a blessing it was a car only!!!
Plan a lovely day out for all house inhabitants, minus yourself. Don't pick up the phone unless it is a life threatening emergency and enjoy the fish!
Just don't miss fun, memory making opportunities... The little ones grow up fast and move away...then sometimes, they don't even like fish
Just a thought.