All of this is great advice, from my perspective the first thing is learning what is required to grow aquatic plants, of various degrees of difficulty. It comes down (generally) to a few categories:
Light- not just intensity, wattage and spectrum play a large role in the plants photosynthesis capability. Most plants do well under 5400k (kelvin) or 6500k.
Nutrients- I will break this down into subcategories, being substrates and added nutrients.
substrates range from ornamental gravel like yours to potting soils adapted for aquarium use. There are even DIY solutions found all over the web. For ornamental gravels, it is important to consider that rooted plants will only be taking in the nutrients from fish waste or added root tabs or injected inputs, whereas bare rooted plants like java fern that do best out of the substrate actually absorb nutrients from the water, which can make things easier and harder depending on how many and what kind of plants you keep.
CO2 is the single most important added nutrient in the planted tank, as it is required for photosynthesis to occur. It will naturally occur in water around 4-6ppm, but plants will gradually eat that and then have nothing. This is where injected CO2 comes in. DIY solutions are easy and affordable.
additional nutrients, such as macro (N,P,H) and micro (trace) nutrients should be added on a schedule for micro, and when you notice defficiencies in macro nutrients. This is actually optional, depending on what plants you keep, and should be researched depending on your commitment.
The rest comes down to making sure you aren't overdosing on any nutrients, including CO2 and proper water conditions being maintained with weekly water changes and ensuring your filter is clean.
After you're comfortable with the basics, you should look at different online live aquatic plant sellers to get an idea of what kind of plants you like. Remember, a lot of sellers include info on the plant, and care sheets can be looked at if you want to make sure you're not mixing low and high light plants, when you only have enough light for low to medium light plants. I recommend moss and ferns for your first go, easy first step like I did. And remember to look at reviews of online retailers if you plan on buying online.
Hope that helps