bleeding fish...
I haven't been here or as often as a lot of you, so I don't know each of you so well.. I am starting to know and understand a little about some of you, but not enough for me to jump in on such an argument as this... There is a lot that could be said in defense of either side and I don't want to take part in that, however, couldn't we continue to try to encourage, and criticize when neccessary, without being hateful? I just looked at krap101's profile and noticed that he (just guessing a he) just turned 13... Now I don't want to say, "he's only thirteen, leave him alone" and I also don't want to say "13 year olds aren't that bright or mature"... I wont say either... But I do know that when I was 13 I probably wasn't responsible enough to take care of fish on my own successfully... I also want to mention that krap101 is here and as far as I can tell, trying to learn... If he didn't care for his animals or what we all had to say, he wouldn't ask... Now I understand, maybe you've said stuff and he hasn't listened... For all we know, as far as fish are concerned, we might be the only positive influence he has, so I think we need to be a little more patient... I think it is ok to be critical when neccessary, maybe grab hold of him and say "hey, are you listening" but I think if posts need to be edited by someone else then there might be a little too much anger in it... even though we might be thinking of the fish, being so harsh could have some serious effects on krap101 and on the care of his fish... So I say, let us continue to encourage, and again I say criticize when neccessary without causing injury to each other... some of the words that have been spoken here would hurt me quite deeply if they were spoken against me, even if I deserved them... I'l probably never come back here again... now some of you might not care but that's not going to help him or his fish... I think if someone feels that strongly about something it might be best to speak such harsh words in private instead of publicly humiliating them... Sorry if I offended anyone with any of this, I just think this should be a more peaceful community... "that's all I have to say about that."....