Oscars eggs are prone to getting a fungus infection. Common problem really because as you know they are not the "cleanest" eaters.
As for the egg color, it differs a little but mainly they turn from white to an off-white to yellowish color. The grey kinda concerns me but lets just assume they are fertalized.
Here a few suggestions.
They mate pretty regularly (meaning the same time every month). Try and do a 30% water change and a REAL good cleaning before hand. and you may want to feed them live food as to keep down the waste in the tank.
I would try that first. (even before separting them as I suggested in the above post)
Other tips/info:
Also I don't know where they are trying to lay these eggs, I assume a piece of slate, but here's a trick you can use to help out. Get a big country crock or cool whip container. Take the top of the container and sylicon a few small pieces of slate on it. Just enough to keep it from floating around. Place that in the same place they spawned before.
Once they eggs are on the top of the container, you can fill the other half of the container and "cover" the eggs for transport to a fry tank. This can be done with eggs or you can let the parents take care of them and once they hatch; do the same thing. They don't move much when they are first born so they will still be in their swarm.
Also using this method becareful to make sure the container is sealed or turn the container upright to transport them. You don't need eggs/fry spilling on the floor.
I don't know if you have a fry tank or have a spare tank sitting around. 5gal tank would do it. Just get some gravel from your main tank and an air bubbler. You would need a full setup if you want to grow them up.
One other thing is if the oscars don't feel comfortable or are spooked, they may eat their eggs too so becareful or cover the glass with paper bags.
I'm sure there is more but I have about 3million things going thru my head because I'm moving at the end of the month. If you need something else or more info just ask. I have breed a few pair of oscars. Albino Tigers and Normal Reds.
GL..