Wy Renegade
Aquarium Advice Addict
Yep, let's just tell everyone who has incompatible fish in an uncycled tank which they have limited access to, and who does not have the financial means to purchase necessary items to maintain that aquarium that everything is wonderful. Sorry, but providing advice (and great information has been given) also involves pointing out the negatives about the situation which need to be remedied. Nothing here IMO has even come remotely close to crossing any lines or being harsh towards the OP. In fact, I may be about to come the closest...part of being responsible for children should be setting a good example for them. I agree to re-home the Mollys (perhaps on CL as mentioned, or in the classifieds section of this site), cycling the tank and keeping the frogs which apparently the kids are the most interested in anyway and would actually be in a suitable environment.
Indeed, I agree; aquarium keeping should be limited to those of higher financial status and a wealth of experience.
Didn't you all start somewhere? I'd love to know how many on these boards started their first aquarium with all the required knowledge, money, and experience to have it be a complete success.