I've had fish for 2 days but even so I thought I'd do a mini recap just in case anyone besides absolutangel04 reads this thread. Obviously things could change, for instance the leaves could become a pain when they degrade. Anyway getting to it.
-I love the sand. At first I didn't much care for the look of the pool filter sand. It grew on me though and a lot of tanks in the future of mine will have it. I like it better than gravel and certainly better than the playsand. That was a huge waste of time.
-Don't assume sellers on ebay know what they are talking about. No amount of soaking and boiling is going to make that softwood usable, even if they claim they used it. Find my own or pony up the extra for some mopani or malaysian.
-After killing off about 70 Amazon frogbit and 20 dwarf water lettuce I've decided not to try plants right now. I like the stock lighting on my tank in this case since it's darker anyway.
-The mixture of leaves makes the tank. Just let them float and sink where ever. The drifts they make because of the current will look better than anything I try to do myself.
-My first fishless cycle was hard but I'm definitely going this route again.
-Making a stocking list is fun, however I'm not very good at following it. At least I researched a lot so I knew other species that would work.
-The tank looks great. I'd love to have a bigger version with the same setup, bigger shoals, more tetras, pencilfish, corys, plecos, dwarf cichlids, hatchets. Would look great having a big tank full of little fish.
-Rosy tetras are awesome. Kitty tetras are beautiful.
I'm sure there's more but that's the top of my head rambling recap. I set out to make something that looked fairly realistic and in my opinion I succeeded pretty well. It looks good and the fish are certainly fun to watch.