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I'll chime in, it's not a very good answer, but... I learned the hard way when trying to get my male to pair up with a beautiful EBJD female. Either put them in at the same time and let them grow, or if your guy is 5+, youll need a 5"+ female, and probably acclimate them with a tank divider.
Poor Jill literally got her head bitten off by Jack